a random thought.actually not random. i was just thinking, if one day i had to choose between friends and family, which would i pick. then i realised that i would pick the one i feel closest to. maybe thats why people choose husbands or wives before parents, cos the list of people they love most or care for most has changed. but then again, how often is it that u will love your friends more than your families? maybe not at our age, plus we are'nt guys. cos we still need to depend on older people, we are still kids. and im not being sexist, but guys understand one another better, and when you're just friends, expectations of one another become much lower. less pressure, less stress, better relationship, and they start getting closer and closer from drinks, sports, cos they start knowing each other in and out. females, yea, i guess through shopping, coffee, phone calls, but usually females are more sensitive, no matter towards friends or loved ones, hence disputes occur more frequently, and being the jealous creatures we are, relationships go haywire easily. so its understandable why guys can choose friends over girlfriends, and females, their children over husbands. cos in their opinion, the kids belong to them, they have control over them, but not their husbands.
im sure i make sense, dont care. omg. projects. shit. im really damn tired already. haiy.
